Hello, The 4 people in my family who I was considering telling my truth have previously shown acceptance of LGBTQ+ people. They are my mother, father, grandpa (mother's side, probably the most vocal ally I know), grandma (father's side). I recently came out to my mother. She stated that I was too young to be gay, too young to know, and that she wasn't going to believe me until I was over the age of 18. I am in the middle of my teens, and I do not believe I am too young. I now find myself unable to come out to anyone else. It took so much effort to get the words out of my mouth and now I don't know how to tell anyone else. I'm sure, I'm praying, that if I tell her dad, or my dad, or his mum, they'll accept me. They'll make it all right. I don't know what to do. How can I tell someone.

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The Dangers of Down-Voting
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    ImASquirrelYipee
    1y ago 100%

    I'm so sorry for what happened, and I've deleted both posts (at least on Beehaw for the other one). I didn't think of it the way you and Fracture showed it to me and I'm thankful that you shared your insight.

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  • The Dangers of Down-Voting
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    ImASquirrelYipee
    1y ago 100%

    i didn't see it like that. I'm gonna delete that post, and I'm so sorry for that. Thank you. I understand that deleting it won't right my wrong, but I'm sincerely sorry.

    Edit for a little note: I went to sleep after posting this, and I haven't checked Beehaw since. That's why I left it up for so long. Thank you though. Also, the post was a technical perspective on how the portals work in the game, not anything to do with it's content or the like. I haven't paid for the game either. So, I've deleted both posts and wanted to thank you for sharing this perspective.

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  • The Dangers of Down-Voting
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    ImASquirrelYipee
    1y ago 100%

    Reddit did try this, they use downvotes as a way to prevent showing poorly written or short content, but they didn't properly explain it and so I feel that it probably wouldn't be able to be explained.

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  • https://medium.com/@magnus.oloughlin/the-danger-of-down-voting-619201a6e4cb

    This is my work; I am also looking for constructive criticism.

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    # Quick Note I do not support JK Rowling and do not support other people paying for the game. I did not, however I legally do not endorse that either. I also am completely unsure how this actually works, this is purely speculative based on my own limited in-game research. ## What this is not going to be. This is not taking a peek at the code behind the system. I am looking at how the system appears to work from a technology perspective. # The Main Point Hogwarts Legacy's portal system allows for engaging play if you do not test out the system properly, which is something they are semi-successful at preventing. You do not need any modifications to the game to test it out, and all my testing was done in the first instance of engaging with these portals. ## How it seems to work. Let's say there is a portal accessible from both sides. One side acts as the teleport-er, and the other allows you to walk through without being teleported. The side that you can teleport through provides a full view of the destination, replacing the view that would be there otherwise. If you go through the portal, it doesn't seem to teleport you immediately, and I believe there is some rendering trickery until the player's camera enters the portal. This is because, if the portal is close to an edge, you can go behind the portal, standing on the side that doesn't teleport you, put your camera in front of the portal, and walk forward. It allows you to continue to walk, following the solids from the destination of the portal, until your camera travels through the portal. When your camera travels through, it reveals what you are actually standing on and, assuming you are standing on nothing, if you move you will fall. The side that does not provide the teleportation allows you to walk through, nothing seems weird about that. I am unsure how they didn't get you to be triggered by the other side's portal, but that is not in my area of expertise. In other places, it appears that the portal has its own version of the other side, simply teleporting you when you walk through. This is evidenced because of the fact that, in one instance, when you walk through the portal underground you can see the skybox in certain angles. ## The issue with this system. If the portal borders a ledge, your character is able to walk off that ledge assuming that the camera is looking into the portal. When it goes through the portal, it is clear to the player they are standing on air. If they do not move, the grounded check does not seem to run, which means they can stand in the air indefinitely. This provides no advantage to the player. The portal instances where they render parts of the other side show an issue that seems to be something that they heavily want to avoid, showing the players parts of the map they would not see otherwise. The reason I know they want to hide these parts of the map is because of the EXTREME lengths they go to to prevent the player from 'escaping' the main playing area, even if it means breaking immersion. I can make another post on those lengths if requested. These issues are not evident if the player simply uses the portal in the exact way that would be predicted by any party looking at the issue, but this is shown in places where your solving puzzles, and that causes people to do all kind of crazy things. # Why does any of this matter? It doesn't. But, it can be useful if dealing with a portal situation in a game.

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    You can't post ass, Threads is doomed
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    ImASquirrelYipee
    1y ago 100%

    I get where this article is coming from but it does extremely poorly at explaining its topic and reads as basic “I hate content moderation because I can’t see nsfw content”

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  • how do you teach a 5 year old critical thinking
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    ImASquirrelYipee
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    You need to let it sit for a SMALL amount of time. Enough where they will notice the uncomfortable feeling, but obviously don’t hurt your child. I’d reccomend doing outings like to the local park or something with the (secret) main aim to see if this works. (Please note I am ENTIRELY talking out of my ass here, this is just my thought on the topic)

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  • I'm really enjoying no down votes on Beehaw
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    ImASquirrelYipee
    1y ago 100%

    To be fair, the report feature exists and considering that they do the submissions so well, they'd probably be able to check it pretty often.

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  • Sharing Work
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    ImASquirrelYipee
    1y ago 100%

    That's a really useful guide tysm, I'll be sure to refer back to this.

    I personally tend to write YA / Romance kinda things, so self-publishing sounds like a fun thing to do. Ik Wattpad is good for the genres, but I hate the stigma around the website because of all the... questionable content on there. (To be fair my stuff tends to lean into the dramatics a little bit but i reckon it does it well enough, I'm hardly unbiased though.)

    I kinda wish Amazon had something like a more helpful review system, as I do believe that the system that's currently in-place doesn't lead to much constructive criticism.

    NOTE: Apologies if this post hasn't came out the best I am so tired.

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  • Hello! I was curious how you guys like to share your work, particularly long-form works. I mean, excluding publishing because that sounds like a lot of effort I cannot be bothered to put in. I've been wondering what other people like to do, I don't really share my work that often.

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    Preferred writing medium
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    ImASquirrelYipee
    1y ago 100%

    TLDR; Google Docs, and lately Obsidian

    I'm not going to lie, I just use whatever's on hand. I've written stuff on google docs for a while now, at the moment I'm using a good app called Obsidian (not made for writing but hey, what works works). I've been meaning to try Scrivener but 90 dollars (AUD) is a bit much, especially as I don't think I'm a good enough writer to justify it.

    Pen and paper MURDERS my hand, which is a bit annoying and I'm trying to get over it but like it's just agony man.

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  • Megathread for Reddit Blackouts and News - Week 1
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    ImASquirrelYipee
    1y ago 100%

    Is there a difference between the various types of data requests? There are 3 options based on different laws, but do they give different information?

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  • What advice has helped you the most as a writer?
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    ImASquirrelYipee
    1y ago 100%

    I never received this advice, but I feel like it would've helped me get into writing well before I actually did. It's okay not to finish. The 50 google docs you have all show your work, how you're advancing your skills and expressing yourself more and more in each response. I used to only be able to write a few sentences before quitting, but now I go much longer.

    Also, length doesn't matter. I used to constantly try to set goals for how much I'd write in far too short a period. This may be useful for some people, but for me I just got distracted, obsessed with reaching my unachievable goal, and it was far less then helpful.

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  • What advice has helped you the most as a writer?
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    ImASquirrelYipee
    1y ago 100%

    I agree with this. I used to be unable to write anything because I felt like, if my work wasn't read, it was useless and needlessly written. Now, I love writing and I'm able to do it every afternoon, it's quite relaxing.

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